Four notes on how research describes the ordinary conversation of long partnerships.

The notes

Each note summarises a body of published research, names the researchers behind it, and states the methodological objections that have been raised in the same literature.

• I Shared meals and the ritual literature Fifty years of research on family routine, and the definitional problem that runs through it.
• II What happens when good news is shared Shelly Gable's work on capitalization, and why perception and behaviour are hard to separate in it.
• III Small bids and a contested prediction An observational idea that survived the statistical claim built on top of it.
• IV Perceived responsiveness, and what it measures Harry Reis's construct, its association with wellbeing, and a discriminant validity question its own authors raise.

How the notes are made

1. Sources are named. Every study referred to in a note is identified by author and year, and listed at the foot of the page. Where a figure appears, the study it came from is stated in the same sentence. No statistic is published here without a traceable source.

2. Disagreement is printed alongside the finding. Much of the research in this area is correlational, based on self-report, and drawn from a narrow range of participants. Where that is the case, the note says so in the same paragraph as the finding rather than in a footnote.

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